10 things to swear by for a successful marriage

10 things to swear by for a successful marriage

What is the true meaning of a marriage?

Marriage is the beginning—the beginning of the family—and is a life-long commitment. When two people come together and love each other and want to spend their life together, it takes a lot of hard-work and mutual respect comes into play to make it work for a lifetime.

What is the purpose of marriage?

Is marriage only a customary concept set by the society? The answer is NO.

Marriage is the ultimate form of commitment which you can share with your significant other. And its important to make the relationship work for a lifetime.

Here are 10 things that you keep in your marriage to make it amazing and successful:

1. Communication

A good marriage thrives on the open exchange of emotion, desires, and beliefs. In fact, communication is one of the most important aspects of a happy marriage. Most marriages go through rough times, which can change the way spouses communicate with each other.

2. Keep the romance alive

Romance isn’t something that happens just once a year on Valentine’s. It really is something that you’ve got to make happen regularly. It’s so important that we have romance in marriage because it keeps the relationship growing and passions alive. It also keeps the relationship positive and keeps it from deteriorating.

3. Go on dates

Yes its true that once you start a family, there is not much of time for the married people have for themselves. Going out on dates every once in a while can help the romance and bring husband and wife together more close as a couple.

4. Those little gestures

Sometimes, little things can make or break your day and that can effect your marriage some way or the other. Small gestures can show that you care about your partner and it is as important as the big ones. Ask them about their day, hold hands while consoling, hugs and kisses, just simply saying I love you and mean it.

5. Don’t be a chauvinist or feminazi

Marriage is about partnership, and it should be 50-50.There is no big or small in it. You have to divide the responsibilities with each other and respect it. Degrading each other and gender roles can cause problems and conflicts.

6. Find a common hobby

Once you have been in a relationship for a long time, you should try to find new hobbies to keep your relationship exciting, and to keep your connection with each other strong! Growing your interests and hobbies together can not only allow you to grow as a person, but it will allow your relationship to grow and flourish. It will allow you to learn more about the other person, more about yourself, and you both can enjoy.

7. Privacy about solvable marital problems

Here, I am not at all saying keeping it private about domestic violence or abuse or cheating spouse private, its should be addressed and called out. There’s no need to discuss arguments and disagreements that can be resolved privately. Involving family members in small fights and arguments can cause family conflicts and it can impact ultimately on your marriage.

8. Saying sorry first

If you want your relationship to last, you have to learn to take accountability when you make a mistake or hurt your partner’s feelings. It’s not always easy to say “I’m sorry” in a relationship, but it’s important to get comfortable apologizing to your partner.

9. Laughing together

Partners who are able to laugh together, stay together – so don’t be afraid to just be silly with your partner sometimes. Did you know? Studies showed, laughing together with your partner can build longer, happier and healthy relationship. And it ensures to recall the moments in shaky times.

10. Creating family values together

Each family have their own rules and values which is ruled out by elders for the children. Good values build a strong family. Creating a healthy environment for all the member to strive is the most important part of family values. support each other in building positive values.

Hope this blog is helpful in some way for you.

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